I had a baby 2 and a half months ago, and now when I have sex with my partner it really hurts. The only way i can describe it is that it feels as if I've been kicked 'down there'! It's the same feeling I had just after I'd had my son. I had a episiotomy and was sown up after the birth, could this have something to do with it? My stitches are completely healed, although they were infected for a few weeks after he was born.