I'm growing up

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Ladiie_Tempah

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Or, rather, the world is growing up around me.

And it's depressing me.

Everything's changing. People I've known my whole life are changing. I went home for a week, back to the place where I grew up, where I knew people and they knew me. I had a small group of friends there in school.

Devon, Norman, and Kalvin all fucked off and got married. Devon actually lives close to me, but I have yet to get his phone number so I can try get ahold of him.

Yeah, good luck with that.

Eh... One day It'll be Justin's turn to get married. At least he values friendship enough to not let a woman grab his balls with an iron fist. The only ones of us who won't get married are me and Robert. Neither of us want to. I might some day, he never will. He's up north somewhere guiding. Haven't seen him in a while.

The only one who hasn't changed much is me. I've matured... a little. Yet I try not to grow up because it's depressing. Soon I'm going to be old, then I'm going to die, cold and alone. That's the way life is. I guess I just better learn to accept it.

Meh. Maybe I should just stop thinking so much. 12 hours is a long time to think about shit.

:happysad:
 
You'll be fine I promise, and so what if you don't grow up, maturity is one thing, I plan to never grow up and be old. That's no fun, live life, be happy.
 
Err. You sound so depressing. People get married, they move away it happens. It'll happen to you too, you'll find someone. Now go outside and smile for once. :happysad:
 
Unfa I know what you mean man, it seems most people after a while just file into the cookie cutter of reality. Get married, have kids, have very little fun, and join the program. I don't know what to do with it myself man. :happysad:
 
...and thats the problem.

Unfa, have you ever considered anti- depressants,or going to see a GP, this is by no means at poking fun at you but you seem depressed all the time.

You seem to live in a state of perpetual bleakness. Seriously. You remind me of Marvin from The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy. If you don't get some help or just snap out of it you probably will die, cold and alone as you said.
 
Meh, I'm kinda there right now too. In just over the last year, three of my friends have gotten married, and in about the next year another two are gettin' hitched. I don't even have a girlfriend. It is depressing at times, but yet I'm still young, so I make myself snap out of it when I get depressed about my life. I got lots of time yet!
 
It seems to me that some of you have a very grim view of marriage. Trust me, it's not horrible, and you still have fun. My husband and I have fun, and no children... It's not "filing into the mold" or however you want to view it. It's finding somebody you can't live without and wanting to keep them with you at your side forever...

My only hope for you guys out there who think marriage is a bad thing is that some woman walks into your life that you can't imagine living without.
 
Marriage is just a title, just a label. It means nothing in and of itself other than who gets to pull the plug and maybe a tax break.

I dont plan on ever getting married unless my girl wants to, because, let's face it, the wedding day is the girl's day. Guys dont like weddings. If I never have to go to another wedding in my life I'll be thrilled. But who am I to deny the love of my life her day in the sun if she wants it? You know?

You can spend your life with someone without getting married. I'd rather know they're with me because they love than because they're irritated at the bother it would be to go through a divorce.

Either way, I'm gettin a damn pre-nup.
 
My wedding day was my mother's day. Don't let any girl fool you that it's all about the bride, because Mom gets about 70% of the power if she's buying...

I had a party, my mother got her wedding. I love my husband, and honestly we could have gone ahead without the rings and paperwork. Having everybody there to wish us well in our future was amazing, though. I'd suggest it to anybody.

One day, you'll understand.
 
"It's inevitable to grow old, but an option to grow up."

I've always liked that saying and to be honest it's pretty fun to follow it. Just go around and have fun and do whatever feels right to you.
 
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