Go to your place of choice walk up to the bar get a shot of courage get the bar tenders name. Look around the place like your having a good time find a girl, the uglier and fatter the better. Get the bar tender by name then attempt to buy her a drink, Talk about MJ OJ AIG, Madoff. and you'll be on a good start to other avenues like sex. I Fig. you wanna do like they do on the discovery channel or maybe your a person anyone can take home to MOM. Either way your going to be a winner tonight. Go get some tiger !!! and remember shyness is not a disease not talking to the girl is.