I'm going camping with a sketchy guy? Help?

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Lamia

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I'm going camping tonight with a few close friends. One of my friends is bringing an ex-fling who's about ten years older than her (she's 16) and does a couple of drugs. I've heard a lot of bad stuff about this guy from a few of my close friends that know him. As much as I usually don't care about these things, I'm going to be camping in a secluded area with a bunch of drunk people, him included.

I have no choice to whether I'm going or not, because I'm sure as hell not leaving my girl friends up there alone with this guy. And I can't tell them to not go cause these plans have been set in stone.

I think we're picking him up as we're going up to the campsite, should I just try to talk my friend out of letting him come? I don't want to cause a hassle and ruin a fun night, but I don't want anything terrible to happen either. WHAT SHOULD I DO?
I'm planning on staying sober for the night, as well.
And I'm eighteen, she's the second to youngest out of the people going.
to The Sandman- more so this guy got out of prison a year ago, and he's been rumored to rufie chicks...
 
I definitely think you should try to tell your friends it would be best to not pick him up. I am 20 years old and I can't imagine ever going camping with a bunch of 16 year olds, so yes it is very shady that he is coming and it would be so horrible if he brought drugs up there and something bad happened.

Try to get your friends together and respectfully tell them how you feel about the situation, they might agree and overrule your friends desire to bring him.
 
just go & have fun, but if the guy starts acting sketchy just warn ur friends privately
u sound smart so u should be able to take care of it if things get out of hand(:
 
I think you should make sure that you give contact information to various adults and make sure you have a way to use it. Also make sure that you share your concerns with your girlfriends so that a plan can be put into action before you go. I hope all goes well. Oh and stay with someone at all times
 
go but dont have too much to drink so you can sort things out if they get too far. also make sure you have a working phone wiith u just incase. be safe xxx
 
hmm...he sounds weird!
i would be worried too!
just tell your girlfriends how you feel..and tell them that maybe you guys should pass on taking him.
hmm..good luck!
 
yes try to talk them out of it. you dont want YOUR fun weekend ruined because you are uncomfortable, and you certainly dont want it ruined because he does something messed up. or the only other alternative is to bring either mace, a taser or a fire arm!! good luck!
 
Yes, stay sober.
Talk them out of bringing him,
he is not right for your 16 year old friend. If you have heard all these bad things about him, then thats one reason why he should not come. There is a reason why he is an ex-fling. Those things don't just go away. I hope you know I'm worried for you guys. I really really don't think that he should come. Nothing good can come from it. Have it be a girl weekend? Tell them that?
 
Just be wary. Tell your friends you are uncomfortable with him and then don't put yourself in any positions that something could happen to you. If you get caught though...drinking or even being around him when he's doing drugs you could get in trouble.
 
Talk to her. If you aren't comfortable then she needs to know. I wouldn't want to go camping with a guy I don't know either.
 
You are right to be concerned. a 26 year old who hangs around 16 year olds is trouble. At the best it is inappropriate at the worst he is a sexual predator. Having sex with her "ex-fling" ( with drugs and alcohol it is pretty likely) is enough to have him put on the sexual predator list for life.

If you can't talk them out of bringing him along, about the best you can do is stay sober and watchful, without involving parents, which I assume you don't want to do. Good luck.
 
1st of all NOTHING is set in stone, if u feel this guy is bad news DON'T GO. if u realy have a problem then ask a buff guy freind of yours to come along and keep this guy in check. either way this kreeper druggy is a pedifile in my book(for going out w/ someone ten years younger than him) other than that u should have never agreed to go if this guy is coming and i know ur gonna hate me for saying it.
 
well, you shouldn't get drunk, so that you can kinda keep an eye on things. & plan to call family or a friend who's not going at a certain time to make sure everythings going well. its pretty weird that a 26 year old would wanna hang with a 16 year old. you could talk your friends into calling him & telling him its canceled, but you guys can just sneak & go. that way you wouldnt be starting a fight
 
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