I'm getting weird signals from a Sagittarius female.?

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Hello! Thanks for choosing my question.

Now, my Sagittarius "friend" has been giving me the following attitude:

1) She used to be real nice
2) we used to talk all the time
3) One day we just stopped
4) those days turned into a week.
5) She talks but not often
6) if I say: "hi ____" she'll just give me a thumbs up and turn away, giving a fake smile.
7) Turns into the point where she's just ignoring me now.
8) Talks to me only when she's not around her friends from her other school.
9) She avoids me and looks at me like I'm a talking roach.

I don't know what's going on. She used to be so much fun. We talked all the time. Now, on AIM, if I say hi, she says: "Hi. ttyl cuz I'm gonna take a nap." It was 8 PM and she's going to take a nap? -_-Maybe it's me but I feel there's something wrong with that. Should I ignore her back and give her a taste of her own medicine? There were times when we couldn't go a whole class without talking but now, we barely talk in any class. It's like I'm invisible to her. Maybe I'm taking things the wrong way but I asked if she was honestly truly my friend and she said she ahd to think about it. To me, that's a no. I'm a Libra (oct.19) Any advice on what I should do because she and I were close, not real close but we were good friends. Now it died and I just met her last month!
 
Im a Sagg and I will only act like that if :
1-I thought you had a huge (yes huge not a small one )crush on me and I didn't like you. Therefore I will be avoiding you because I will feel weird that we used to be friends and now you feel something more than that. I dont know how old are you but I usually act like that with my friends when I know they are just trying to sleep with me.
2- You did something to her! Have you lied to her? Did you hide something from her? We sagg hate liars and if we find out that you have been lying to us about something we will dislike you right away (at least that applies to me) I did what your friend is doing to you to my Scorpio (ex)best friend when I found that he lied to me all the time and trust me I was able to detach myself from him and all we had in only 1 day.
3-She just finds you boring so she doesn't want to bother going out with you. (I dont mean to hurt your feelings here)

What you can do to get her back?
1-Give her some space because she is indirectly asking you for it (by ignoring you)
2-Take her somewhere fun, be spontaneous but only after you give her some time
I seriously recommend you to just give her some space and then act according to her reactions cause if you start acting cold all of a sudden she will take the "fine" attitude and she will be cold with you too. So don´t ignore her just be a bit more distant.

As a Libra its probably hard to make up your mind of what to do when you are with her (Trust me this frustrates me every time I ask my Libra "What do you want to do?" and Libra just stands there looking at me as if I had the answers to everything) so next time you go out with her take the initiative and choose were to go, show her that you can make choices too!
Thats all I can say...
 
okay i can give you 2 options to choose from:

1)Straight up ask her about her behaviour, do this though face to face though not thru AIM
2)Drop her like a hot potato
 
i just dumped a Sagg, i dont even have time to figure what the hell is on their minds, they seems confused and sparatic. I just forget she existed...sometimes it best to just get rid of em, rather than try to figure them out. Let someone else bother.

On the other hand, not to defend her, but i had a libra friend and i treated him the same way she is treating you. I found myself often trying to avoid him for several reason but i'll just list a few.
1. His conversation was airheaded and boring
2. He seemed to copy my style of dress, and seemed kinda envious of me and wanted me to be envious of him
3. After knowing him for eight months, the more i seen him, the less i liked him...tho i tried to hide it, he felt like you do now it seemed, so i think he knew deep down, but being the cool guy i am, i tried to keep lookin for something i liked about him and continued to hang out. I found nothing!! He finally started trippin and told someone we knew that he had nothing more to do with me (like a gave a damn), i did talk to him later and let him know that I have alot of good friends with good qualities and his qualities did'nt really fit my bill. Hopefully she will give u the same courtesy...i have not tried to contact since and won't. So maybe she feels the way i do...she wants nothing to do with you..THE LIBRA. Libras like to convince themselves that they are the most important person to people, and feel the should get more attention than jesus...some think they are jesus and they want to be the center of attention. Maybe your friend is not the issue...everybody know libras freak out if they are not the center of attention. I say grow up, get a life and stop thinking, hoping and wishing thaty people are so concerned or should be head over heels to talk to you. Others are going to command attention rather you like it or not, they are even gonna take people attention off YOU...wow, imagine that? Leave the girl alone and move on with ur life...i think she feels like i did bout libra, boring and she does not like you.
 
dont tell me you participate in the mass cultural delusion that the suns apparent position relevant to the arbitrarily defined constellations at the time of your birth some how affects your personality..
 
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