stay hard & can't cum.? I'm 19 years old and sex has never felt good, even oral doesn't even feel good it kinda tickles. I've had sex before with both men and women. Sometimes I just lose my hardon, I have never came before, except once when watching porn with them. Here's a few things you need to know before answering my questions which I think could possibly effect my current sex life.
1) I masturbate a lot, at least once a day, sometimes two. Maybe my penis has been desensitised. Though I tried giving it a week break then going for sex and still couldn't stay hard let alone cum.
2) Even though I'm comfortable with the person I'm with and they are good looking, sometimes I don't even get hard.
3) I used to have phimosis, until I had sex and the foreskin pulled back.
4) After finding out I had phimsosis and fixing it by stretching, I found out I had a short freulumn too and I have kinda fixed that too.
5) Even though I'm a social person, I get flustered really easily and embrassed, especially when I meet new people or doing a talk in front of a class, which kinda indicates that I'm kinda shy?
6) I've tried being on the receiving end of anal sex before too, that didn't feel enjoyable at all.
7) I've never came during sex before, only when my partner decided to pull out a pornographic movie that I came whislt watching and even that took awhile.
9) Sometimes I can keep a hardon, sometimes I can't it kinda just varies.
10) Final one, this one is kinda personal, long story short, I was once molested by an older man when I was kid around the age of 10-13. Though it wasn't forced & it occured more than once, when I told him to stop cause I felt werid, and he did.
I don't know what's wrong, who should I go see? A GP? A Counsellor?
1) I masturbate a lot, at least once a day, sometimes two. Maybe my penis has been desensitised. Though I tried giving it a week break then going for sex and still couldn't stay hard let alone cum.
2) Even though I'm comfortable with the person I'm with and they are good looking, sometimes I don't even get hard.
3) I used to have phimosis, until I had sex and the foreskin pulled back.
4) After finding out I had phimsosis and fixing it by stretching, I found out I had a short freulumn too and I have kinda fixed that too.
5) Even though I'm a social person, I get flustered really easily and embrassed, especially when I meet new people or doing a talk in front of a class, which kinda indicates that I'm kinda shy?
6) I've tried being on the receiving end of anal sex before too, that didn't feel enjoyable at all.
7) I've never came during sex before, only when my partner decided to pull out a pornographic movie that I came whislt watching and even that took awhile.
9) Sometimes I can keep a hardon, sometimes I can't it kinda just varies.
10) Final one, this one is kinda personal, long story short, I was once molested by an older man when I was kid around the age of 10-13. Though it wasn't forced & it occured more than once, when I told him to stop cause I felt werid, and he did.
I don't know what's wrong, who should I go see? A GP? A Counsellor?