Im afraid my (new) therapist is not openminded...I have very sensative sexual...

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questioner49

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...issues to discuss? help? do u kno if christians become thrapists. im very upset. i just came home from my first session. shes very nice. but im just afraid its not the quality im looking for. im expected COMPLETE openmindedness to everything and anything. incestuous feeling for example =/ and being gay and alllll the issues that come along with it.

i quit my appointments with my other therapists around july. he was a psycologist. she is a social worker. that could make a big difference =//// he was good but I came to a point where i got stuck and wouldnt talk. (very painful)....im just not sure (actually im POSITIVE) a therapist would not understand/relate/comprehend "gay" issueslike another gay person.

srry for blabbing away. but this is very much a struggle for me. i need therapy. im 15 years old btw. i hope to GOD shes not a christian.

i just dont kno anymore -_-
 
Hey there,

Go with your feelings, if she isn't a good fit, find someone new. You deserve to have the freedom to share your inner thoughts with someone who can keep an open mind, without judgment, while hearing you out. Straight therapists are able to understand/relate/and comprehend you, you just need to find the right one. Don't be discouraged. Ask her directly if she feels comfortable treating you, with these issues. Get a good feel for her, maybe two more visits? It's your call. You seem really sweet and I can tell that you're hurting. I wish we were friends, I could show you how christians care for your heart and LOVE you, just as Jesus loves you so much. There are so many fake people misrepresenting God, don't give up on Him yet. He loves you very much and wants you to know it. I hope you hear my heart in this. I'm praying God shows you how He is concerned with you these next few hard years. Lots of LOVE sent your way!
 
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