I'm a pervert, need help!

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joekeys32

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From what I read, I think he should write down the other side of that list as well. This would serve as his personal measure of appropriate versus questionable.
 
Ok, as someone who has been in and out of therapy for awhile, I can tell you that the on-campus therapists are good for the blues, not big shit. They're basically a suicide hotline that you see in person.

If you have a good job, then I suggest seeking out a higher caliber of therapist. It sounds like you're really being tormented by all of this. You can't blame yourself for what turns you on. That's the first thing you have to accept.

There is hope because you know that you have a problem and you want to fix it. That's way more than many people with a problem have. Like I say, find a good therapist and talk this out. They can really be a good source of release. Just, find a good one. A really good one.

I wish you the best of luck with this. Remember, we're always here to vent to. :hug2:
 
Thanks for the tips people.

I know that by reading this you imagine that i am some sort Jeffrey Dahmer, but that is not true. If you knew me, you would never assume that i have any of these issues. The only reason i can be open here is because it is anonymous. I would never ever ever, let any of that stuff slip through the cracks. Especially now when i moved in back with my parents.


I dont have much free time which is good. I have a full time job and school and started going to gymn with friends. (yes i have friends)

What i learned from my past experience is that i cant be left alone by myself. When im alone shit starts to happen. So best course of action is to stay close to people that i allready have.


I am still young so i hope that as time progresses everything will come into its rightful place.
 
You probobly have Asperger's Syndrome. Some people grow out of it, like me, some don't. It's all dependent on severity.

Many people with Asperger's do act to fit in - I can naturally pick up on these cues so I don't have to do that.

As for the craziness - Look up various disorders like Bipolar and Schizophrenia and see how well you fit the DSM-IV criteria. Looking up personality disorders can help too. I'm definitely borderline.
 
Descent, you commenting on this kind of this kind of thread is like the pot calling the kettle black.

Asperger's Syndrome is a form of autism that causes anxiety and these people have trouble communicating with others.

It really doesn't explain his sexual cravings for fetishes and prostitutes.
Which I believe seems to be most of the issue here.
 
Im horny all the time too does that mean im going to go on a murder rampage or something

/sarcasm

I think you can handel you seem to be a smart guy who can handel his own just keep busy and try not to let stuff bug you.

and remember wipe front to back
 
Wow. There's jumping the gun, then there's putting the gun at the bottom of the Marianas trench, and motocrossing that shit.

I was commenting on how he was talking about his issues interacting with and reading other people.

The perverted stuff? That's why I mentioned the other stuff i.e., bipolar and other various disorders.

Painfully obvious you didn't read my whole post.
 
hey man, you definitely need someone you can trust to talk to and keep you calm. Maybe you need meds, maybe you don't. But we're not the ones to tell you that. Go see a real shrink with an MD, tell them you don't want medication unless its absolutely necessary. Some of those guys will throw a scrip at you sooner than look at you, so find somebody who cares.

But, more importantly, don't be so hard on yourself. There is no "normal". Just try to embrace your fucked-upness and realize where it comes from. Don't hurt anyone, and don't hurt yourself.

But mostly, as you said yourself, chill out about it and just rest assured that most people are a little screwed up in their private life. THAT's normal.

Good luck. And I think you're pretty brave to spill your guts here. No matter what the the others say, this forum is just as good as anywhere else to start.
 
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