is easy. go to a gay and lesbian bar. Thats pretty much it. These people can smell newbies a mile away. They will take care of the rest.My advice is to take it easy and take your time. Most people in the world are selfish. As such they will do things that mostly bennefit them. For example, a person that have an std may have no problems passing it to you because they already have it so it doesn't matter to them. They may also not care about your emotional state. That goes for all sexual orientations. It is always better to meet someone and get to know them. Then build some sort of relationship. Note that by relationship it doesn't necessarily have to mean marriage. A relationship is a type of arrangenment between two or more people. It could be friends, coleagues, lovers, bussiness partners whatever. Once you buold a relationship things get a little bit better because people will work for that particular relationship. For example a bussiness partner has a bested interest in the success of the bussinness. There fore he/she will do things that will benefit both you and him. Comapare this to a guy off the street. The guy on the street will sell you a gold watch but it doesn't matter to him whether the watch is authentic or in good condition. Once you buy it you are on your own. A bussiness partner cares about the watch because if you buy something that is no good he will suffer too. So, go after some sort of arrangement. Maybe a sex buddy where you can explore and experiment. Anyways, if all you want is a quick experience then gay bar will do. Go in and you will be hit on rather quickly. Note that gay people have rules and regulations or so I have been told by gay friends. This is because there are not many of them. They want to protect themselves so sleeping around is not always good because they are a small comunity. What you do will spread around and it may not work to your benefit. So, maybe go out of town for this experience. I still say, get to know this person a bit. Remember, there are more carzy people on the street than in the asylum.