...sex drive, I have pent-up? energy, I don't want to cheat but feel I need to. I have been married for almost 3 years. While I was dating my future-husband, I pretty much had no life. I still lived at home with my parents, attended college classes and that was pretty much it. I never exposed myself to the opposite sex. Now I'm married, living in our house with two awesome dogs. I have began doing fun things for me, like taking an exercise class, which I love. Problem: I am soooooo attracted to my instructor and can easily feel myself getting into hot water by taking it a step further with him. I am sooo hungry for sex with him, I feel like I'm going to explode. My husband works all day and is too tired for sex when he gets home. I have all this sexual energy for my instructor and feel it would be a bad thing to act on it because I'm married. Help, I don't know what to do?