Im a 16 yr old guy and have had anal sex for the first time?

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Ok yes i am guy. I have had anal sex for the first time with an older guy who was 22. My only concern is it felt good when we first had intercourse but now it kind of feels sore like really sore. He did have a pretty big co*k i dont know what to do i want to go to the doctor but im embaressed what he will say. But it is hurting me alot especially when a walk. What can i do
and dont ask why im with a 22 yr old becuase i dont care were in love and his totally hot. So i dont care what you think.
Ok for those asking no i didnt use a condom. But that because my bf told me it would hurt more with one. But i totally trust him his only been with one girl before more and his only recently gay. But i will take more care next time
We did start using a condom but it was hurting like hell then when he took it off it felt alot better, im not dumb and i know what im doing i trust him and he trusts me so it wasnt a big deal. But i will use a condom from now on.
 
lol i wudnt worry about going to the dr i have had it there before and its normal for it to hurt cuz its so tight lol but just make sure u practice safe sex
 
Hun, you should always use a condom. I don't care WTF he says. If it hurts more then too bad, deal with it or don't have sex (or have sex differently). And use latex, not the lambskin ones... those do nothing to prevent HIV.

It's normal to be in pain after anal sex, but go see a doctor anyway, if he has a problem, it's his fault.
 
It doesn't hurt more with a condom... if he loves you, he should have been honest with you.

You don't say how long it's been since you had sex with him. But it really shouldn't continue to hurt unless some damage was done.

Find a gay or gay friendly doctor. (If you're in or near a good size city, your local community may have a directory of services, and there may be a doctor listed.) One way or another, if it continues to hurt, you have to get medical care.

And yes, use a condom... I personally wouldn't put a lot of faith in anything a man says, especially if he told you a condom would hurt more. Doesn't sound like he is really too worried about you or what's best for you.

There are still way too many young gay guys getting HIV and other STDs from other guys, and it can all be prevented with a condom.

OK lecture over. Have fun, but be safe.
 
I think you should go to the doctor. it doesnt matter how embarrased you are, who cares?? If he has a problem with it, then thats his damn problem right?? Its just the best, so just do what you feel.
 
well ive never had anal sex, but i have had sex lol
and the first time im not going to lie hurt a lot
im not sure if its the same for anal cuz its a different part of the body
but im sure its natural
you should ask your boyfriend about his frist experience and see if he had any symptoms like yours
if the pain last longer then you think it should then go to a doctor
 
Ok.

1) I hope you used protection

2) It is normal to feel sore from your first couple of times. But when was the last time you had sex? Was it last night or last week? If it is still sore and hard for you to walk after a week, then perhaps see a doctor. Don't be embarrassed about seeing him, they come across a lot worse I'm sure.

3) I know you said don't bother saying anything about your age difference, but I will. I am 19 and I dated a 15 year old. I thought we were in love too...no we weren't. I also lost my virginity to an older guy, I thought that was awesome at the time...it wasn't.
All I'm saying is tread with caution...I'm not judging, I'm warning.

EDIT: You didn't use protection? come on! You are 16, you should know better than that! And he's 22, HE should know better than that. Are you sure you're not a troll? You seem awfully ignorant about your sexual safety?
"It would hurt more with a condom" pfft...you believed that?
 
that's normal for it to hurt, for a couple days after, especially if he was big. hopefully you used a condom , which should be the first and only thing you worry about when having anal sex.
 
It would hurt more with a condom?? Come on! I cant believe that you believed him! He's taking advantage, he knows better.
 
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