Well i was 15 when i first tried having sex with a girl. I couldn't get up and we never had sex. Later when i was 16 i had been dating a girl for 9 months and we successfully had sex (though we were completely used to being naked with each other). We had sex many times over the course of the next year and i never had any problems with getting hard. Though after we broke up i tried to have sex with another girl and once again the problem came up once again. I went back to having sex with her for a while and i never had an issue (never lost it during sex either). We eventually stopped and 2 months later me and a girl were in bed about to have sex and i couldn't get up. I don't know what to do and yes it's very frustrating and embarrassing. I don't know what the deal is, i have no problem getting hard around my ex or with myself but i cant when its with a new partner and i dont always have time to get to know the new girl. I dont think its nerves because im not nervous...
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I'm 18 and i have issues getting hard for sex?
- Thread starter Dalton
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I for one will not say your gay. Although I am a female, I understand what you are saying.
I will probably say that you are either shy or they are just not that appealing to you.
an erection is both mind and sight.
Lets go to a porn-o, are you able to get it up even if the girl is ass ugly?
If so that is not as likely for your problem.
Next I would say that there isn't enough "pre-game" before your ready to insert.
Try asking for head if your doubting yourself for the big moment.
And that also might be a problem, if you expect your not gonna get hard, you won't. remember, Mind as well as the sight.
I would deffinitely suggest more foreplay before going to the meds. Maybe watch a porn together then go lay in bed and attempt the dirty. Make the whole deed more exciting, tease her and she'll tease back, talk dirty, play the do as i do game.
Or it's just the fact that your shy. so you just need to warm up to each other, and your jumping to sex too fast. I love this game: Kiss a body part(non-sexual) and name why it's attractive to you, then slowly work your way to the more desired spots.
well..anyway...goodluck, and if you're still having trouble, go back to your old gal, or get some meds. but your only 18 (as am I) and I don't think an 18 yr old should have to resort to meds.
I will probably say that you are either shy or they are just not that appealing to you.
an erection is both mind and sight.
Lets go to a porn-o, are you able to get it up even if the girl is ass ugly?
If so that is not as likely for your problem.
Next I would say that there isn't enough "pre-game" before your ready to insert.
Try asking for head if your doubting yourself for the big moment.
And that also might be a problem, if you expect your not gonna get hard, you won't. remember, Mind as well as the sight.
I would deffinitely suggest more foreplay before going to the meds. Maybe watch a porn together then go lay in bed and attempt the dirty. Make the whole deed more exciting, tease her and she'll tease back, talk dirty, play the do as i do game.
Or it's just the fact that your shy. so you just need to warm up to each other, and your jumping to sex too fast. I love this game: Kiss a body part(non-sexual) and name why it's attractive to you, then slowly work your way to the more desired spots.
well..anyway...goodluck, and if you're still having trouble, go back to your old gal, or get some meds. but your only 18 (as am I) and I don't think an 18 yr old should have to resort to meds.
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Prudent One
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lubylicious
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erectile disfunction. go see a doc to get meds
Uncannyxman
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It sounds like your problem is more mental than physical. You need to figure out what exactly is causing your sexual response to short circuit when you try to have sex with another girl. Maybe you need to start out with oral first and get used to being naked with her first. You also might be putting more pressure on yourself to perform and that is resulting in you having a limp dick. Also do you worry about the size of your dick when you are trying to have sex?