Im 16 years old and had sex with my girlfriend with a condom bt shes getting symptoms...

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Michael

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...of pregnancy and period.? hey im 16 i had sex with my girlfriend about 2 and a half weeks ago. We used a condom and im sure it didnt break coz i tied it up after we finished and checked the tip to see if sperm would come out but it didnt. so im pretty sure no sperm was released.. but 2 weeks later she is getting stomach aches but since now its 2 weeks later she is supose to be getting her period now the other day she wanted to eat chocolate too. (craves?) but now she is having her period? i hope? coz i read about viginal bleeding. but she said she thinks its her period. please give me the most possible detailed answer please.. dont hate on me for this.. and also if she is pregnant im here to support her coz i reallt do love her i dont fool around like lots of other kids, im serious about this relationship. thanks lots.. im so scared.. pleasde help. she had a 3 day period which didnt involve much blood.. well she thinks its finished now anyways. thats wat she just texted me.. shes gona take a test soon.. sometimes this week.. im really scared i dont know wat to do.. ino i was an idiot but i am really not ready to be a father at 16.. but she said she will get abortion in the early stage.. coz she cant have a baby and she doesnt want one at this age.. but i really hope she is not pregnant wen she takes the test. i have read about stress and tiredness can affect period making it become lighter and shorter but im still scared! please people help me!!! my gf is scared to take pregnancy test coz she is scared of the result but i told her it was ok! PEOPLE ANSWER MY QUESTION PLEASE! I NEED HELP!><
please stop calling me an idiot. i know the responsibilities of having sex. and also you must be and idiot yourself whoever made that comment on calling me and idiot. im sorry for worrying about being scared of being a father at 16. and also it could of not been her period it could of been implantation bleeding. and no i dont need to read books. thank u for the people who actually care and answer the question properly. im thankful for you guys thanks so much.
 
i think its great that you are willing to stay with her if she is, but i also think you guys shouldn't be having sex this young anyways, because being 16 with a child is NOT easy. you guys should focus on school and getting jobs and a good education so that if she is indeed pregnant one day you can support her and your newborn child.
 
I think you need to learn alot more about having sex and periods and babies before you have sex,,,, Really,,,, Go read a book, And tell your girlfriend to get the pill, If she is on her period now, Then she is not pregnant,,,, getting chocolate a craving? Your joking right?
 
well man i wouldn't go crazy just yet some times they are just late and the chocolate well that could just be her um shoot if you did where a condom you checked it it didn't show anything you might be fine
 
sounds like shes ok, and u are both jus paranoid and panicking. if u had it on th whole time and checked to see it wasnt torn, then nothin could have gotten thru. she's had her period anyway, stop worryin, stress can make periods lighter or abnormal, so thts probs y she had a light one. take a test to reassure urselves and stop stressin
 
Ok calm down.
If she had her period she's unlikely to be pregnant.
Just wait for the test result.
Stop hyperventilating.
 
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