If you loved someone and wanted to marry, what is the identity/characteristic that...

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fistoffury

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...you could not see past? Religion, race, eye color, etc. could you just absolutely not look past, no matter how great they were. OR at least what would be the hardest to see past?
Why?
 
I believe that no matter who you love or marry, there is always something existing in that persons past that you don't like or something about that person you don't agree on. But that is life and you must learn to accept it and look past it.

If you love someone no matter who they are whether it is race, colour, religion or anything else. You will learn to accept that they will be at least a little different from you and have different values, and have seen or know things that you have never seen or heard of.

That is what is so difficult about multicultural dating but if your in love nothing should come between you.
 
Someone I couldn't trust or who couldn't trust me. - Pointless starting anything there.

Someone Bisexual - I could never make him sexually satisfied if he wanted another man also.

Someone violent to women, children, animals, weaker creatures. I don't want to marry a bully or a coward.
 
Anti-feminism, sexism in any form, and seeing me as any less than a complete equal.

Why? Because to me, if a man sees women as below him, he could never truly love me the way I want him to. He will appreciate me, sure, but he will never respect me. I cannot live with someone who believes I am less than him.
 
Wow, there's a LOT of those for me.
Political beliefs and religion are huge. I'm not very religious and I can't stomach someone who is, or anyone who has political ideals I disagree with, they're not even dating, let alone marriage material.
Race is a factor because while I don't want to see anyone get treated badly for the color of their skin, I like my own kind and want my kids to look somewhat like me.
Finally, a sense of humor similar to mine is a must, as is a level of confidence that will keep him from turning into a mealy-mouthed, jealous, stalking basketcase. He also has to be at least somewhat intelligent because I can't deal with an idiot living in my house.
 
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