If you always argue with your boyfriend and he says he wants to take a break.....

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goodaz_chantell17

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...what does that mean? Okay we argue all the time.. but he always says I love to argue but that's not true.. We recently spoke about the constant fights and I said b4 we argue we should think if its goiing to matter in 5 years from now... if it wont then let it go.

Then I cooked fish. I left it on the stove. He asked me what to do with it.. I said can you please put it in the fridge for me.. He said NO.. you do it.. So I said okay leave it on the stove.. Then he got mad and started an argument .. He said he wanted to see if I would turn it into an argument.. He flipped the script.. Hes complaining that I finished the toilet paper quickly .. im messy and a lot of crap..

We cant get along.. and It could never be ALL my fault but he refuses tto see himself wrong.. I do love him and I believe he loves me and Im scared of being alone so I dont want it to end .. at least not now.


What does he mean by " take a break" and what should I do to avoid arguments? Was I wrong this time?
BTW: I AM 17 AND HE IS 19.
 
You weren't wrong. And it sucks but a lot of people hate to admit when there wrong. Taking a break is like a way of saying he wants to think about things like your guys relationship you guys are kinda together but kinda not. Yea I know confusing. Justdon'tt date anybody else while you guys are on a break. In about a week ask him if you guys are together. To avoid arguments try to just stay calm and not yell and talk everything out. Talk about things that bother you and about things that bother him.

Hope I helped :)
 
He obviously is not committed to the relationship anymore, if he ever was to begin with, cut him loose and move on, He obviously has an excuse for everything so that the blame can be passed to you, he may have met someone else and is looking for an easy out. Just let him go, don't settle for less than you deserve.
 
it means he is looking elsewhere or considering it. This relationship might be over or is at its last moments. I suggest you start making plans to move on. If you cant get along, then forget it. You are too young to be spending a bunch of time "trying to work it out:

spend tiime on yourself and your dreams. Time is of essence when you are young to get your personal plans done. dont waste your time,.
 
He wants to break up. I think its best that it ends. It doesn't sound like a healthy relationship. You don't sound at fault.

Just remember: Everything happens for a reason. Good things have to fall apart for even better things to fall together.
 
Love end it, trust me its going to end really bad off of something stupid. Ive been through the same thing with my ex and what I could of done to keep my relationship is eating at me but she doesn't respect me enough she always saw herself as right and Everything became my fault even when it was obviously hers. End it before it blows up
 
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