My ex gf & I have a 4 yr old daughter. I filed a motion for sole custody about 3 wks ago because the mother hasn't been around much for the past yr. Even while we were still together, she was being an unfit mother. She wouldn't shower her for days! I'd come home from work and she's on the computer and the baby was on the floor asleep laying next to her potty trainer with poop next to it. I know it's my fault, I dug myself a big hole by not filing a report on her, but I didn't know what to do! It wasn't until I met a good woman & I married her and she showed me how good it could be to be a MOTHER for my daughter. She would do so much for my daughter and for me that NOBODY else has ever done!! It's unbelievable that's why I married her. Anyway, the ex has gotten so jealous & psychotic that now I haven't seen my daughter for a week!! We agreed on a schedule and on the day she was suppose to return our daughter to me, she decided to keep her and not give her back. I want my daughter back. We miss her so much. My wife has 2 daughters from her previous marriage and they miss their big sister! For the past year, my daughter has been living with us in my wife's house, she has her own room & bed and has a routine at home as well as discipline. At her mothers', she lives with her boyfriend and shares a bed with him!! This is the 6th time in a YEAR that my ex has moved and the 3rd guy,not including me, whom she has lived with WITH my YOUNG daughter!! What will the court do upon these facts? Will he grant me sole custody? The mother drives home from work DRUNK(she's a bartender) and the police never responded to my calls in Chicago!! What the hell am I suppose to do? Call them myself??? Pls someone help me. I love my daughter so much.My wife and kids love her so much.My wife has even put her in school when the stupid ex has been saying for the past year that SHE will do it.Plus she works nights, how the hell can she get custody if she doesn't even have time for her daughter!?? I am a good father. I'm the one seeking custody and was the one who finally stepped up unlike this whore!
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