If the guy you just started dating is into the kinky stuff?

[Lina]

is that a red flag for a future boyfriend/husband? Do people into kinkier sex activities tend to cheat more or something? I've never dated anyone as kinky, let's just say generally. Had sex for the first time last wkend, and he wants me to hang out/stay over tmmrw night. I don't mind it but if I'm not as kinky by nature I guess, does that mean we're not compatible? or if one's not as into it but doesn't mind it is there a chance. Thanks