bdenning89
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I have been with my husband for five years. We already have great sex but I am very interesting in exploring bondage and S&M and he says that he's not really into that stuff. I think that he has this image in his mind (probably from watching porn) about a bunch of latex, whips and violating him anally which is not what I want to do at all. I've told him that I don't want to do anything to him that would make him uncomfortable I just want him to do things to me. He will sometimes pull my hair and spank me which I love but I want more. Is it possible for someone that isn't initially attracted to that sort of thing to eventually enjoy it and if so how could I get him interested in it?