Well, there are small orgasms, medium ones and ones that blow their minds.
Most women want someone that can provide a myriad of these in various quantities, but as someone said, a lot is mental and emotional and you have to have that connection to make them worthwhile.
Some don't I suppose..
The chase is like the same chase some guys do, just to find that right person that will provide the mental, emotional and physical needs, while also providing the romance and nurturing.
Don't we all deserve that? Not just women