doesn't want me there? He's not officially my boyfriend first of all. We've been going out for like 2 months though and neither of us are seeing other people though. lol it's probably time to have that cliche "what are we" talk. Anyway but ya this question came up because I'm singing at this event and it's kind of a big deal for me, and I want to ask him to come. But then I started thinking about how he's never asked me to come to one of his games (he's a really intense athlete and its like his whole life), I mean I would love to but he hasn't asked. Do guys normally ask or do the girls normally ask their guys if they can come. How does that normally go down?