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Jake A
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remain virgins? With all the teenage pregnancies going on a lot of people say "Oh it's only normal for teens to have sex" so does that mean that if they are virgins they are not normal?
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If it's normal for teenagers to have sex does that mean it's not normal for them to
novembrresident
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Statistics are up to their asses in muck !
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s_a_d_e_w
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no silly! people who say that are thinking along the lines that it is natural for an adolescent to want to explore his or her sexuality,it's an animal thing. but then of course they do something irresponsible and get pregnant. if being a virgin is not normal then people would not chose to be virgins and virginity would not be a prized attribute in a person in many societies. A person choses to be a virgin for various reasons just as a person choses (and hopefully it's their choice) when not to be
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Dancing Queen <3 a GSOH
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It's not normal but I guess if it is protected sex then it would be OKAY but not great
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everythingspeachy2000
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Who says it is normal? Just because character and the inability to control immediate gratification does not mean normal. It means immature and not being taught that having sex too early can lead to many unplanned pregnancies..more expense for everyone who has to raise them (meaning welfare)..teen age fathers not learning responsiblity to pay for their child..it means more STDS and that can lead to death.
What is normal about that? Only a child can ask this question...one without the ability to think for themselves and looking for an excuse to have sex and make sense of it.
With sex comes responsibility. Not for just you but the other person...caring about them and their feelings....and their emotions. Sex is emotional...and many people get hurt by thinking sex is love. IT IS NOT! Responsibility for having sex is not just using birth control or having condoms.....it is a personal thing...an inner growth of who you are and who you are with. It is NOT RECREATIONAL....
It is normal when you are adults....and understand life experience and consequences....not when you are a teen and use it to satisfy your hormones.
If children were taught to pay attention to honoring those they are with and respecting them...and stick to studying we wouldn't be so dumbed down in America /or have so many unplanned pregnancies with single mom's. The boys get off of the responsibility of a newborn....so they don't care.
What is normal about that? Only a child can ask this question...one without the ability to think for themselves and looking for an excuse to have sex and make sense of it.
With sex comes responsibility. Not for just you but the other person...caring about them and their feelings....and their emotions. Sex is emotional...and many people get hurt by thinking sex is love. IT IS NOT! Responsibility for having sex is not just using birth control or having condoms.....it is a personal thing...an inner growth of who you are and who you are with. It is NOT RECREATIONAL....
It is normal when you are adults....and understand life experience and consequences....not when you are a teen and use it to satisfy your hormones.
If children were taught to pay attention to honoring those they are with and respecting them...and stick to studying we wouldn't be so dumbed down in America /or have so many unplanned pregnancies with single mom's. The boys get off of the responsibility of a newborn....so they don't care.