ummmm it may be a little bit noticable, but with jean shorts obviously less than with tight pants haha! it would have to be fairly hardcore grinding though mind you

!!
try it yourself, this may sound stupid but do something like sit on your hand out flat or something

move about a bit, see if you can feel anthing?? i'm honestly not sure how else to tell, haha get a friend to help!!!


if you're close to your friends like that
there is nothing wrong with tampons honestly, you do NOT have to use them until you're entirely comfortable, but honestly honestly, they are a million times better, and you can ALWAYS go back to pads, no-one is stopping you. but tampons are a lot easier to manage, i was so so so against them for a whole year, i was adamant, and mum was like "you just wait....you'll be kicking yourself when you use them...you really will wonder why you put it off for so long!"


and oh how i did haha!
you never have to worry about hardly anything anymore with a tampon, you can swim, wear white, whatever, it's awesome

have fun grinding, ahhhh isnt it the best lol