Yvone Damon
New member
...is it considered cheating? My guy and I have been dating for 6 years and have lived together for most of the 6. Recently his friend has been flirting with me and I have returned the flirting. I normally would not do this, but my guy and I had this talk a while back about sewing our wild oats before we get engaged. It was agreed that a one time, one nighter was fine as long as no details were told to each other. I do not believe he could follow through, but I am considering. His friend approached me with the idea shortly after we began dating and I refused due to the newness of the relationship, but now that the opportunity has arisen again, I am really considering it. My guy and I have only been involved physically with each other and that is how the idea got started was with a talk about cheating after marriage due to regrets about not knowing what else was out there. His friend is also in a committed relationship and his girl does not know anything about this. I fear this wouldnt be one time. What should I do?