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If a women takes her kids away from her husband, can he go to court to get them back?
- Thread starter Jason
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knittymommy
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You have every right to go to court.
Court Tips:
Dress for success - not only will you look responsible but it shows that are taking the process very seriously. You don't need to be in full suit or anything but some dressier paints and a collared shirt would go a long way towards making a good impression
Come prepared - Any kind of paper work you can think of, bring it all (and bring it organized).
Take a parenting course or two (or more) - although you are not in a battle to prove you are a fit parent it could easily go in that direction so anticipate the move and do some parenting courses (they usually giver certificates to show you've completed the course)
Take and anger management course - again although allegations haven't been made at this point a spiteful woman will use any ammunition that she can find and anger/abuse is a common accusation. Do a course or two, get the certificate and have it on hand and ready to go.
Keep your cool - you will want to attack either when you walk in or after accusations start coming out. You will loose the high ground if you let it get to you. Don't swear, yell or make personal attacks. If you need a moment to compose yourself tell them you need a moment to compose yourself as you have been shocked/upset by...etc. Don't do this for each statement but if they see that you can see when you need a minute and take it.
Think before you answer - this one is pretty much self explanatory. Often they will try to twist your words so choose each word with care.
I know you probably think I'm being paranoid but I've been in a custody battle before and it kept getting dragged out because of stupid, oh you should do this course and that course, even though I wasn't shown to be unfit in the first place.
I really hope this helps you. Best of luck.
p.s. I'm really happy to see a man that truly loves and wants his kids, there are way too many deadbeats/baby-daddy's.
Court Tips:
Dress for success - not only will you look responsible but it shows that are taking the process very seriously. You don't need to be in full suit or anything but some dressier paints and a collared shirt would go a long way towards making a good impression
Come prepared - Any kind of paper work you can think of, bring it all (and bring it organized).
Take a parenting course or two (or more) - although you are not in a battle to prove you are a fit parent it could easily go in that direction so anticipate the move and do some parenting courses (they usually giver certificates to show you've completed the course)
Take and anger management course - again although allegations haven't been made at this point a spiteful woman will use any ammunition that she can find and anger/abuse is a common accusation. Do a course or two, get the certificate and have it on hand and ready to go.
Keep your cool - you will want to attack either when you walk in or after accusations start coming out. You will loose the high ground if you let it get to you. Don't swear, yell or make personal attacks. If you need a moment to compose yourself tell them you need a moment to compose yourself as you have been shocked/upset by...etc. Don't do this for each statement but if they see that you can see when you need a minute and take it.
Think before you answer - this one is pretty much self explanatory. Often they will try to twist your words so choose each word with care.
I know you probably think I'm being paranoid but I've been in a custody battle before and it kept getting dragged out because of stupid, oh you should do this course and that course, even though I wasn't shown to be unfit in the first place.
I really hope this helps you. Best of luck.
p.s. I'm really happy to see a man that truly loves and wants his kids, there are way too many deadbeats/baby-daddy's.
Sure. He can try anyway. but the only way he can get his kids back is if he can prove that you are an unfit mother. by you asking this question i am assuming that you are worried about this. your either very uninformed or you have a racy history that will come into question. he has to have proof and witnesses.
justclicktherubyslippers
New member
If he can prove she is unfit and he can better care for the children. The kids don't need to be fought over. They need both parents in their lives and custody should be shared to best make that occur.
She loves He
New member
The sooner this man gets a lawyer and goes to court the sooner the Judge will see how serious this man is about his children. Tell him to go now.
yes he can take it back to court. if the wife just decided on her own to take the kids, he would have to take it into the courts and ask for his rights. if he poses no threat to the kids the courts would probably let him have visitation. he has just as much right to the children as she does unless she has full custody and that's usually only determined when one goes for a divorce.
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mr.armstrong803
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yes he can, have everything stating why you are the better parent and the MIGHT side with you and maybe not