If a man stops having sex with you does it mean he is cheating?

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I've been dating a man for about a year, it started out being a sexual relationship, but recently it developed into more, he is with me most times outside of work, has been throwing hints of marriage, we have started doing more things together, etc the problem is he comes over and spends the night but won't have sex with me, when asked why, he says he is under alot of pressure and just needs a friend right now. I do know he is having some difficulties, but why would he not want to have sex with me? I find this strange. Does it mean he is cheating? PLEASE share your thoughts...he is a Virgo man by the way
 
He could simply be under stress and as you said 'having difficulties'. You should feel flattered that he values your company more than just for sex. Try to be the friend that he needs by trying to get him to relax and maybe unload on what is giving his pressure. Since he is spending most of his free time with you and is even throwing hints of marriage he seems unlikely to be cheating.
 
It means that he is comfortable with you. I hope you get more out of the relationship than just sex. Is that all your relationship is based on? Men tend to want only two things in bed. Sleep or sex. When they are stressed or tired it usually favors sleep more often. Cheating, he wouldn't want much to do with you let alone sleeping with you. Good luck and stop being so petty. Talk to him and let know you care
 
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