If a friend confesses feelings for you? you are the judge.?

J J

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suppose you have a female friend for a number of years. she then confesses feelings for you but you rejected her. She then invites you for a dinner but you told her that you do not want to meet her in one to one situation anymore. You then repeated your rejection agian to make clear saying ' I feel no feelings for you'.

She tels you 'Ok, I eccepted that and wsh you good luck'.

3 months later you emailed her with your numbers to get in touch with you. And told her that you were trying to contact her but her numbers were not working (she changed her numbers).

She phoned you and asked you how are you and what had happened. After that she emailed you and said to you ' I just phoned you to see that you are not in trouble but have no intention of visiting you because I need to move on'.

Then one day you phoned her acting like you care about her and wanted her to see her. She then visited you one day out of good faith.

This is what you told her ' right now I need you to be my friend and that I am going through difficult time.' 'I would like you to wait for me'.
Then the woman precedes to invite you for a dinner. You accepted it. And kept phonning her every night somteimes an hour and more phone call.


Do you have the right to tell that woman that she misinterpreted your 'friendly gusture and that you were being friendly friendly chatty chatty...coming over for a cup of tea'.

This is a true story. One of my love disasters.
I am the woman here.

After two years of doing this the guy met soneone else and told me about his new love. That was the end of it. But I was really really hurt by that. But soon after that I met my ex who was another firned too.
 
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