ok next july were getting married i would like to incorperate some traditonal native american ceremony into ours like the 7 steps, blanket ceremony and fire ceremony but how can i make it modern? also if i have everyone take a river stone into the ceremony there thoughts prayers ect.. will be then collected and i can put them in a vase at the alter and have everyone come up and place there stones in the vase. GOOD OR BAD? HELP!