iam 21yrs now.. parents are searching for a groom for me..?

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LawDog

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If it was consensual, what's the problem? 0 to feel bad about.

There are many ways a person can lose their virginity: tampons, horseback riding (true!), a rough medical exam, etc.

If you're lucky, your future husband will be a modern guy who understands what era we're in & not care about your lack of virginity. Chances are he's not!

I sense you're of a different culture where this matters a lot. Why you'd need to tell your parents is beyond me. You're 21. You're an adult. And it's your body.
 
iam currently working in a well reputed company..i too wanna get married in a good way.. but i had boy frnd before and., we had done sexual orientation for many times.. my doubt is whether my husband will find that iam not a virgin.. in my case i cant tell it to him, neither explain my parents about it.. iam really scared about my future.. i did a great mistake i think..
 
ok so you don't sound american or canadian! there are many men that don't care if you are a virgin or not! I know alot of people think that it is stupid but If you are kinda shy try online personals I used plentyoffish.com and met the man of my dreams and we are about to get married! You don't have to tell your parents that you are not a virgin and your future husband will find out eventually but it is not something you have to tell him until you are comfortable telling him!
 
It is not easy to tell if someone is a virgin or not. If your culture requires the blood show of virginity, you can have your hymen repaired but you would need to find a way to pay for it without your parents finding out.
The other option is to tell your future husband that you use tampons during your period. He may fall for this excuse and not question your lack of blood during your first sexual act.
 
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