I wrote a letter to my bf?

[allie no1]

i wrote this to my bf now ex bf ....
i dont want him to crashed my bday party
that is coming up...


so this what i wrote to him...

I did love you allot
but you make me think about us
you like having control over me
you like making me feel sad
but you know what slowly
u was killing my love for you
i never tho you were this kind of guy
you fool me you clearly a liar
acting nice and adorable at first
when you were just an evil guy
with lots of hate in your soul
so now look how i trow you away
like a piece of junk that you are
you betray me
i never will forgive you
i gave you time
i gave you everything
even my heart
you lost something very good
and you will never get it back
i never wanna see you again or talk to you
i dont want you by myside anymore
so please dont show up at my birthday party
caused you are past
and im starting my new life without you
bye have a good life.



Im very concerned of what hes thinking
caused i dont want him showing up on my bday and ruined my party
did i did right of writting this letter to him?

 

[joliebelle]

uh well your still mad at him for what he did according to the letter. but ya its good that you did it even tho i think you shouldve had two guys who can easily kick him out if he does crash. that will embarrass him soo much he will probably stay away from you

 

[- Miss Awesome]

if your so concerned, have your party as an invite only, and let the local police know you are having a birthday party so that if anything goes wrong (like if this ex bf shows up and wont leave) they can remove him for you, i know it sounds extreme but sometimes you have to take extreme steps in life, also, get in touch with his parents and tell them that you too have broken up and that you wish for him to stay away.
i can see from your letter, you are still hurting, but you have taken the step to end things with him and try and move on, and now he needs to accept that and move on aswell