make my new husband happy? I was raped when I was 16. Since then I haven't been too patient and trusting when it came to guys after it happened but I met this one particular guy who admittedly won me over and we started dating. We've just constantly grown closer and closer and he's the only guy on earth I trust. We've been together two and a half years already and I know he's used to being able to sleep with whoever he's dating but he's been so understanding and so patient with me,never once has he gotten mad when I said no. He proposed and we're supposed to get married in March. I haven't ever had sex with anybody. My first and last time was when I was raped. I love my fiance and I really do want to marry him but I'm still....afraid I guess you can say. I've talked to him about it and he told me that he won't do anything I'm not comfortable with but I just can't help but feel afraid,nervous,scared and any other word that can be used along with those.
What do I do? How can I let go of what happened in the past? He's always been so considerate and nice and worried about how I felt,well now I want him to be happy.
What do I do? How can I let go of what happened in the past? He's always been so considerate and nice and worried about how I felt,well now I want him to be happy.