i was in an abussive relashionship and now im more scared then ever...?

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Heres my story....So i was in a relashionship with this sweet,humble guy that swore he loved me and to protect and take care of me ..I fell head over heals and married this man.After two months of marriage i started noticing he has very bad temper porblems and anger issues.then he argued for every little thing and strated to grab on my hand very tight and after a couple of more arguments he strated to push me,punch and grab on my neck,,Soon aftter i stared to fear him...this keep going for 2 Years .. Then finaly i moved to the USA and i had the chance to leave him..and i did and know my family (this took place in Dominican Republic) are having a very important event coming up in the summer and i am planning to go but my Ex husband is a neighbor to my family and i do not want to bump into him because i keep hearing rumors he is going to kill me
plz help i cant stop going somwere b-c of somone...
the police over there are not like the ones here...
 
First of all, good for you!
Most women just curl up and allow themselves to be abused, it's remarkable that you were strong enough to get out of this situation. You should be very proud of yourself.

Second of all, if this guy is right next door, and trying to kill you, I personally wouldn't go. Your family will probably understand if you just explain that your ex husband is their neighbor and wants to kill you.
There's no reason to get yourself killed.
 
If you truly believe this man would kill you, then you should not go or not go alone without a male by your side to protect you.
There are no guarantees in this life that we won't get struck by a bus or die in another way but if it is preventable, then maybe if not much time has passed, you should stay away just this one time.
I take abuse very seriously as I have lived through it myself. I now have a 9mm gun, a concealed weapons permit, and an alarm system after my ex beat me up ONE time.
He was abusive before but had never beat me but when he did, it was over.
Sometimes you have to not go to certain places if you truly fear that this type of danger could happen to you. At least since you are out of that country, you don't have to look over your shoulders all the time the way I had to for at least a couple of years.
Be safe
 
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