Right this is the situation...
I have been out with my girlfirend for over a year and 3 monthsish? Ive messed up a few times. First i called a girl gorgeous over FB but i never meant it, just a repsonse cos she called it me. I had been with my girlfriend for 2 months then. She logged on my FB and saw our convo. It was only that once i did it then i talked about my gf. Was stupid but i shouldnt have done it. Never meant harm. 2nd she found out 2 days before i met her i slept with another girl (shouldnt be a prob) but my GF picks her guys careful. I just came clean with it all. We sorted it out after this. Then a few months go by and we are great etc. My friend has a wedding in september just gone and she keeps saying she doesnt want to go. So i tell my mate that so that they know not ot put her on the list even tho i do want her to. She gets mad and says i shouldnt have said anything etc. I manage to get her to come and then a few months again she says she hates it and doesnt want to go. I tell him again but to ask if it was ok for her just to come to the night part as she doesnt really know anyone and shit hits the fan and she wasnt happy, nearly broke up with me as i should have not have told them as it was between us and she thinks i was wrong and wants to keep them happy instead of her. We sorted it again. Previous to the wedding i paid for us to go spain for a week away and paris for a weekend break. We was fine until the wedding came, she didnt come. 1 week before the wedding we argued over something silly and i drove back to my house, we sorted it on the way back but i said id stay over the night and we'll see each other in the morning. I said id stay in until i got invited out by a friend which i did. My phone battery died and i got my sister to bring her phone out so i cud borrow it. I lost her phone and i ended up lying to my gf that my sister lost my phone and she borrowed it. she came round and we sorted it and we went to NYC together had the best time in the world! I admitted i lied once we got back and she broke up with me cos she cant trust me. I apoogsied so much cos i know i was in the wrong and i learnt my lesson and that id never lie again. I love her so much. Now my friend made a comment on FB that they want to save me from her cos she treats me bad? I went mad and now that friend is no longer along with another guy. That was bad and we nearly broke up again. Ever since i let her down with the lie i have done nothing but be good to her. Now she sai she has been unhappy since september and doesnt want me!!! I cant live with that cos i know we are so good together. I spoil her rotten and i know its not a reason to stay with me but i want to treat her like a queen! I would never hurt her again and i dont ever want to let her down! She has now said i need to move out and give her space and see how we get on cos we live with each other and see each other everyday. I agreed to it so i have a chance to make her happy.
Will i ever make her happy and will she ever see that i want to do nothing but make her happy? She needs to see this cos we have always said we will be together forever!
I bought her so much for xmas which i know she would love - Tiffany &co necklace and braceflet (she picked it) a watch she wanted, games, uggs, PJ's, concert tickets etc.
I am planning to do a scrap book from the day we met till now all the good things we have done including pictures of us. What can i possible do to change her mind? I know i can force it but i want her to see what i actually am, not a liar or an idiot just a general nice caring guy!
I have been out with my girlfirend for over a year and 3 monthsish? Ive messed up a few times. First i called a girl gorgeous over FB but i never meant it, just a repsonse cos she called it me. I had been with my girlfriend for 2 months then. She logged on my FB and saw our convo. It was only that once i did it then i talked about my gf. Was stupid but i shouldnt have done it. Never meant harm. 2nd she found out 2 days before i met her i slept with another girl (shouldnt be a prob) but my GF picks her guys careful. I just came clean with it all. We sorted it out after this. Then a few months go by and we are great etc. My friend has a wedding in september just gone and she keeps saying she doesnt want to go. So i tell my mate that so that they know not ot put her on the list even tho i do want her to. She gets mad and says i shouldnt have said anything etc. I manage to get her to come and then a few months again she says she hates it and doesnt want to go. I tell him again but to ask if it was ok for her just to come to the night part as she doesnt really know anyone and shit hits the fan and she wasnt happy, nearly broke up with me as i should have not have told them as it was between us and she thinks i was wrong and wants to keep them happy instead of her. We sorted it again. Previous to the wedding i paid for us to go spain for a week away and paris for a weekend break. We was fine until the wedding came, she didnt come. 1 week before the wedding we argued over something silly and i drove back to my house, we sorted it on the way back but i said id stay over the night and we'll see each other in the morning. I said id stay in until i got invited out by a friend which i did. My phone battery died and i got my sister to bring her phone out so i cud borrow it. I lost her phone and i ended up lying to my gf that my sister lost my phone and she borrowed it. she came round and we sorted it and we went to NYC together had the best time in the world! I admitted i lied once we got back and she broke up with me cos she cant trust me. I apoogsied so much cos i know i was in the wrong and i learnt my lesson and that id never lie again. I love her so much. Now my friend made a comment on FB that they want to save me from her cos she treats me bad? I went mad and now that friend is no longer along with another guy. That was bad and we nearly broke up again. Ever since i let her down with the lie i have done nothing but be good to her. Now she sai she has been unhappy since september and doesnt want me!!! I cant live with that cos i know we are so good together. I spoil her rotten and i know its not a reason to stay with me but i want to treat her like a queen! I would never hurt her again and i dont ever want to let her down! She has now said i need to move out and give her space and see how we get on cos we live with each other and see each other everyday. I agreed to it so i have a chance to make her happy.
Will i ever make her happy and will she ever see that i want to do nothing but make her happy? She needs to see this cos we have always said we will be together forever!
I bought her so much for xmas which i know she would love - Tiffany &co necklace and braceflet (she picked it) a watch she wanted, games, uggs, PJ's, concert tickets etc.
I am planning to do a scrap book from the day we met till now all the good things we have done including pictures of us. What can i possible do to change her mind? I know i can force it but i want her to see what i actually am, not a liar or an idiot just a general nice caring guy!