I want romance, he just wants sex, how can I make this work?

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Anjel

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apparently I didn't write out my question well enough and for that I'm sorry, I want romance AND lovemaking, he just wants to stand in the doorway with his pant around his ankles asking "do you want to?"
He doesn't understand the meaning of "romance" and NO I'm NOT going to leave my husband of 4 years because of that, I just wanted some advice
 
You strike a balance. Sex and romance work together. He needs to watch some old Fred Astaire movies and listen to Al Green. You need to stop sitting there being an audience and actually participate.
 
GET OUT OF THERE. If all he wants is the physical you, then that is his priority - no getting to know the real you. He isn't going to be concerned about getting to know you, so he isn't going to be concerned about being romantic.
 
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