some grand reception.10pts? I am not a diva or bridezilla. completely the opposite. id love to have a really beautiful church ceremony! take beautiful pictures afterwards and be done with it! my fiance and my mom dream about a huge reception! my mom keeps reminding me its not just my wedding and moms dream about this and my fiance is like i want a reception but have no really reason why its just because! we arent made of money nor do we have alot of it. everybody does a reception afterwards and i need advice to help with this predicament. i am at my witts with this because everyone feels like they should be in control and i understand i have to listen to everyone but i dont know. were not having a dj so what do i do? help?