I have a friend ( i think you should know first that he is openly gay) I have a friend from 7th grade and we used to be buddies until 9th grade we didn't see each other as much. then came 2nd semester and he was in one of my classes and we talked more and it was just like old times. Like every week he would tell me how much he hated this school and he reeealy wants to transfer. on the last day he was relieved and left thinking he'd never come back.
school started up again about one week ago. He showed up, but not the first day. about 5 days into the year. and he was standing by himself so i went to him and asked why he was all by himself and he was totally about to cry and he told me this sob story about how his life is f***ed up and how he has family problems and how school is soooo hard cause he's not smart and when kids are mean to him... so I tried to help him, I offered to help him with his school work and I even walked him to all his classes that day. But on the other hand I tried to remind him that he's no different from anyone else and that everyone is dealing with problems. He just doesn't believe me, he thinks everyone else has a perfect life. And he even got offended by me telling him that. So today this morning I saw him again and he was by himself, so I said, What's the matter??? And he says, "Stop asking me that." WTF. anyways, should I just leave him be? we've been friends so long now. But Idk. What should i Dooooooooo D:
school started up again about one week ago. He showed up, but not the first day. about 5 days into the year. and he was standing by himself so i went to him and asked why he was all by himself and he was totally about to cry and he told me this sob story about how his life is f***ed up and how he has family problems and how school is soooo hard cause he's not smart and when kids are mean to him... so I tried to help him, I offered to help him with his school work and I even walked him to all his classes that day. But on the other hand I tried to remind him that he's no different from anyone else and that everyone is dealing with problems. He just doesn't believe me, he thinks everyone else has a perfect life. And he even got offended by me telling him that. So today this morning I saw him again and he was by himself, so I said, What's the matter??? And he says, "Stop asking me that." WTF. anyways, should I just leave him be? we've been friends so long now. But Idk. What should i Dooooooooo D: