I thinkkk my boyfriend wants me to have oral sex with him?

So I'm a good girl... I'm
17 & a virgin. I plan on
being a virgin until I am
married... I'm on my first
serious relationship. The
guy is not a virgin... many times..
Many girls.. Idc, that's in the past.
He knows my morals & where I
stand & he has told me time and time
again, that he repects that, & that he
actually finds it attractive. he has never
ever everr, pressured me to have sex
with him or anything of that nature.
He has never even hinted towards it in
the whole 2 years that we've been dating...
But the other day he did ask me: Do you ever
just..... have the urge... to get a little crazy &
just.... do it? I kindly told him how stupid
of a question that was & explained that I am
not 10 years old, I DO have raging hormones
believe it or not... Pshh.... Silly boy..
But any ways... Then he asked me if he could
ask me another question, I said sure. He hesitantly
started to ask Well... how do you...... How do you
feel about...o......... oh man, nevermind, I don't want to
ask you that. I don't want you to.... nevermind.... I'm sorry...
Then he refused to finish his sentence... : /

I have a feeling he was going to ask me how I feel about
oral... Guys, would you say this is accurate? Idk.. I love him
& stuff and he has been so good on repecting my morals
& not pressuring me all this time. I really would like to save
oral for my husband too... But I almost feel like I'm being unfair
to my boyfriend now.. If I don't give him oral, do you think he'll
get bored with me & peace out soon? : /
 
Definitely.
Look, personally I think just saving sex for marriage is enough, but it's your body.
If I had a guy like that I definitely would.
I don't think he'll get bored with you if you don't, which is precisely the kind of guy you should be giving oral to. Giving it out of fear is not good.
 
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