I think my long distance boyfriend is being weird?

[Dramagirl]

I Think My Long Distance Boyfriend is being very weird since yesterday. I live in Alabama. He calls me Since 12: 06 am at midnight and i haven't answer the phone because, I just got minutes and i want to save it up and talk on every weekends. After he left a voice mail. I wrote him a message. I told him, I'm Sorry Haven't Answer My phone. I was Listen to Music. I'm Tryna Save my minutes. its better we talk every weekend. I ask him do he have yahoo Messenger? He told me, he do not have a yahoo messenger. I ask him, Can you sign up for it? next couple hours he didn't respond me. I write him back and i still kept asking him could you just sign up for it? it's better we get in touch. I still haven't got his respond. So, I"m going to stop writing him. let him write me back because i don't won't to write him so much. So, He calls me in midnight. We being to text each other. this is what we wrote last night.
Me: What you doing right now? (12:09am)

boyfriend: Baby i can't sleep right now ( 12:13 am)

Me: I can't sleep either. What you doing right now? (12:14am)

boyfriend: Nothing just thinking about you right now.( 12:17 am)

Me: I'm thinking about you too. Do you have a computer in your room? I'm just wondering Would you sign up Yahoo Messenger? it easy to get in touch. (12: 20am)
so, i gave him unless 10 or 20 minutes respond back because to me it seen like every time i ask him this question about yahoo Messenger he never respond, he will respond the other one.

Mek, umm, What are you doing 4th july? did you get the last message i have wrote (12:33am)

Boyfriend: Yes i did baby (12:51 am)
Me: ok, then what's your respond??? (12:52am)
Boyfriend: Baby am just trying to go to sleep have work tomorrow.
How is he trying to go to sleep and he kept talking to me for the whole time it take him 8 minutes and he haven't answer my respond about the yahoo Messenger. I want him to sign up for it so we can get in touch easier. i was mad. I was crying. What should i do? I'm sorry about my Grammar i'm going to work on that. Please don't insult me. if you don't want to read this all don't reply.

 

[Lady Kelly]

I think part of the problem here is that with all these instant access ways of communicating that we have today, like IM and texting, people tend to expect others to be available 24/7. And if someone disappears for a day, they need to account for it. This puts way too much stress on long distance relationships and/or new relationships. People end up afraid to pick up their phone or log in to the PC.

I'd give him space (hard as that is) and wait to hear from him. You might want to "get in touch easier" but that's not always a good thing. It's not about you being wrong or whatever, it's just too much for some people.