I think my friend's best friend is... weird she's freaking me out?

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OKAY so I made friends with this girl and eversince her best friend is always saying how she loves her best friend which happens to be the girl I made friends with.... it's creeping me out...

Is that her way of saying back off?
 
yeh i think so. But DON'T
she should be able to have other friends
she's being ridiculous
dont take her away from her but dont just back off
she can'ttell u who u can be friends with
can she ?
:)
 
i dont see anything wrong with expressing some kinda emotion towards a best friend. i have a best friend that i love to pieces. not in a sexual way lol, just as..'i love u loads as a friend' kinda way. theres nothing wrong with that. i dont understand what the big deal is here.
if she's making it clear to u that she doesnt want u near her best friend then she's obviously intimidated by u and is feeling envious. she's probably worried that her best friend will replace u over her. talk to them both. dont let this girl control u tho. u are free to make friends with whoever u want. x
 
Maybe! Maybe not!

Maybe she just needs to talk about how / what she feels about another person.

Question: Why does it freak you out? ~ and what does 'freaking you out' mean, actually?

Sash.
 
Sounds like this best friend is intimidated by her bestie's new friendship with you. She may be afraid of being left out somehow. Either shrug it off, or make efforts to befriend her as well. Ignoring it could escalate the problem into a you versus her situation and catch your new friend in the middle of an ugly spat. Making efforts to include her is probably the best approach. There are several ways to do this. For example, say hi to her and let her know she matters, and that you aren't trying to "steal" her best friend away. Try to include her in activities or events that you and her bestie go to.
 
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