I think i might be gay...

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Due♥12/09

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Who hasnt at one time or another looked into themselves and asked "Wow, I seem to really like this dude, am I gay?". I think every person has, just few will own up to it. I think everyone at one time thinks about it and figures it out. I dont however think at 15 your going to rock solid know.
 
I know most girls have that one friend that they would say "if I were gay I would totally want to be with her". I assume it's probably the same with guys but of course normally don't admit it.
There are people who honestly like people for people and could honestly care less about what their sex is.
Either way, you're young and have plenty of time for experimentation. When it's right you will know it.
 
thanks for the advice guys ya i am young 16 so i cant be sure and I totally dig chicks physically but when i talk to them i just cant get into them you know what I mean ?

Mabey I am just attracted to smart people regardless of gender ?
 
Yeah, I find girls more attractive than guys just cause they're so much prettier, but no I'm not gay. I can't stand most girls really and I could never see myself with one. If you can't see yourself in a long standiong relationship with a certain gender then that's really how you can determine your sexuality.
 
Regardless of what the media would like you to think, your sexual preferences do not define who you are. They only define who you are attracted to.

You would all do well to remember that.
 
No. That's not what I mean at all. If you want to be flamboyant, thats fine too. But don't go around calling yourself a woman, that just pisses women off.

I'm saying that who you are is not determined by what gets your boat to float. Being gay or straight doesn't make you a person, it makes you have a sexual affiliation. So I don't see why you would stress out about it. Just have safe sex when you are old enough with whoever you choose to have safe sex with, but don't let what the media says define who you are. You are first, a person. Who you fuck does not change the core of your being.
 
I'm going to through something out here: homosexuality does not always encompass what you prefer to do in the bedroom. Let me repeat myself. Your sexuality does not always determine what you enjoy in the sack.

I whole heartedly agree with DG.

Also, I'd like to say that no one can decide for you what you are except for you. And if it turns out that you like men, well, super! If not, that's also great. Just be yourself. Things pan out eventually.
 
I agree with DG. Words can't define who you are as a person. You don't have to label yourself as "gay" or "bisexual." If you find that you find both sexes equally attractive and lovable, then that's how you are. :)
 
So you never meet smart girls, just smart guys? I want to be all supportive but you just bashed my gender. I am going to try anyway, I agree with the comments about you being young, you have plenty of time to figure it all out.
Btw, not all women are stupid and shallow, 15-16 is just a hard time for one's personality and they are trying to figure their shit out too.
 
not that i don't know smart girls but girls seem scared of seeing more

if you know what I mean guys just words don't exist for it

but i can connect with guys on a level that i cant with chicks
 
Well yeah of course you can. As a guy you know where the other guy is comign from. You get it. You're plumbed the same as him so you see things the same as him.

No guy will ever connect and understand women like can other men. That doesn't mean you're gay, just confused by women because Gawd Damn they're confusing.
 
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