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Dave
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Alright, so i'm a horrible dancer. I have no rhythm or balance. As I am in college and go to parties almost every day of the weekend... this presents a serious problem.
Its not a confidence problem...I know i'm not a bad looking guy. I dance with girls all the time. I have no problem going up and start dancing with a girl. The problem is that after a couple minutes or so...even if they give me allt he signs they were previously interested...they stop because I suck so bad.
I mean...I don't think I do anything too wrong. I pretty much just try to keep it simple and follow their hip movements. Its when they start doing the tricky stuff that everything goes to hell.
Like if the girl happens to be a really good dancer and does all kinds of tricky/sexy moves or w.e.....I just feel like i'm standing there holding onto a bucking bronco or something.I feel like i'm just trying to not get knocked over when they do that...let alone do something that resembles decent dancing to prove i'm a viable sexual candiate or w.e.
What do I do when they do dips or bend foward, or bend backwards? Or start doing that wavy motion with their body...cause I am completley inflexible and can't even do that.
This is really hurting my college experience...even if I can hook a girl from just talking to her and flurting...shes going to inevitably want to dance at some point. And when we do...I look/feel retarded. Even after a few drinks and i'm just having fun and moving to the music. I don't need to be impressive...I just want to not look like a jackass.
Any advice is appreciated.
Or does anyone know where I can get lessons to aid me in this particular type of dancing in the philadelphia area?
Its not a confidence problem...I know i'm not a bad looking guy. I dance with girls all the time. I have no problem going up and start dancing with a girl. The problem is that after a couple minutes or so...even if they give me allt he signs they were previously interested...they stop because I suck so bad.
I mean...I don't think I do anything too wrong. I pretty much just try to keep it simple and follow their hip movements. Its when they start doing the tricky stuff that everything goes to hell.
Like if the girl happens to be a really good dancer and does all kinds of tricky/sexy moves or w.e.....I just feel like i'm standing there holding onto a bucking bronco or something.I feel like i'm just trying to not get knocked over when they do that...let alone do something that resembles decent dancing to prove i'm a viable sexual candiate or w.e.
What do I do when they do dips or bend foward, or bend backwards? Or start doing that wavy motion with their body...cause I am completley inflexible and can't even do that.
This is really hurting my college experience...even if I can hook a girl from just talking to her and flurting...shes going to inevitably want to dance at some point. And when we do...I look/feel retarded. Even after a few drinks and i'm just having fun and moving to the music. I don't need to be impressive...I just want to not look like a jackass.
Any advice is appreciated.
Or does anyone know where I can get lessons to aid me in this particular type of dancing in the philadelphia area?