I really want to have sex but...?

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johnb693

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Think of sex, as a bit like learning to swim. You never jump into the deep end, first. You paddle around in the shallow end, so if you become afraid, all you have to do, is stand up and your fine.
No need to have intercourse, right off the bat, just work on foreplay, and take it nice and easy, and step by step.
As your boyfriend isn't pressuring you, that should help. Just make out a bit more, and go with how you feel, until you reach the point, when you do feel comfortable and ready for the real thing.
 
I have been really wanting to have sex for the first time but when it comes down to it I get too scared and push my self away. I don't know why I feel like this I'm very comfortable with the person. I am however a little self conscious about my self but I really just need to get over it. How can I over come my fear of sex so I can have a normal life. I'm almost 21. My boyfriend doesnt ever pressure me into anything but I can't keep doing this to him. Please help me out!
And don't be rude and stuff like that. I'm just asking for help!
 
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