soccermania192010
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I asked this before, but I have new info. Please help me out.
I'll answers yours if you answer mine.
I'm 19, I have a crush on my friend's 42 year old married dad. Please don't lecture me, I don't plan on making a move on him. I just need help decoding his behavior & again, please don't judge me or lecture me. I've only known him for 3 months & in that time he has done a lot of weird, confusing things. He stares at me all of the time (if I put all examples, this would be longer than it will be); tries to make eye contact w/ me, but I almost never do out of shyness; he smiles at me a lot; whenever they come to pick me up & I open the backdoor of the car, he'll turn around & stare at me; he says random things to me, for example: I got in the car once & he was staring at me & he said I looked mad lol; he's laughed at dumb things I've said that weren't really even funny; a couple weeks ago, he had to reach across me (I was sitting & he was standing) to do something & he got nervous & pulled his arm back & couldn't even finish what he was doing; on the way to drop me off from a day trip somewhere, we pulled onto a street that I had fooled around w/ my ex-boyfriend on (but they don't know that) & I said "good times on this road, that's all I'm going to say", coincidentally 5 sec. later, he goes "Did you enjoy yourself __________?" I still to this day don't know what he was referring to lol; when they had dropped me off, I looked at him & he said "Take care" & I looked towards my house & I looked back at him & he was still staring at me; he added me on Facebook & always sends me gifts from the games on there & now works for me on Baking Life; one night recently, he IMed me saying "time for all puppies to be in the bed aint u glad u a big dog" I said "lol yep" & he said "good night daughter", etc.
Any idea what's going on here? And does anybody know what he meant by that IM? I'm so confused...
Also, he's been sending me more gifts on Facebook, sending me "love", & he keeps "liking" all of my statuses lol. He never "liked" my statuses until I started liking his.
Chris-I did say I wasn't going to pursue him in such a way, so your answer was a waste of typing.
I'll answers yours if you answer mine.
I'm 19, I have a crush on my friend's 42 year old married dad. Please don't lecture me, I don't plan on making a move on him. I just need help decoding his behavior & again, please don't judge me or lecture me. I've only known him for 3 months & in that time he has done a lot of weird, confusing things. He stares at me all of the time (if I put all examples, this would be longer than it will be); tries to make eye contact w/ me, but I almost never do out of shyness; he smiles at me a lot; whenever they come to pick me up & I open the backdoor of the car, he'll turn around & stare at me; he says random things to me, for example: I got in the car once & he was staring at me & he said I looked mad lol; he's laughed at dumb things I've said that weren't really even funny; a couple weeks ago, he had to reach across me (I was sitting & he was standing) to do something & he got nervous & pulled his arm back & couldn't even finish what he was doing; on the way to drop me off from a day trip somewhere, we pulled onto a street that I had fooled around w/ my ex-boyfriend on (but they don't know that) & I said "good times on this road, that's all I'm going to say", coincidentally 5 sec. later, he goes "Did you enjoy yourself __________?" I still to this day don't know what he was referring to lol; when they had dropped me off, I looked at him & he said "Take care" & I looked towards my house & I looked back at him & he was still staring at me; he added me on Facebook & always sends me gifts from the games on there & now works for me on Baking Life; one night recently, he IMed me saying "time for all puppies to be in the bed aint u glad u a big dog" I said "lol yep" & he said "good night daughter", etc.
Any idea what's going on here? And does anybody know what he meant by that IM? I'm so confused...
Also, he's been sending me more gifts on Facebook, sending me "love", & he keeps "liking" all of my statuses lol. He never "liked" my statuses until I started liking his.
Chris-I did say I wasn't going to pursue him in such a way, so your answer was a waste of typing.