i really need help, don't judge, i am scared.?

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Tatiana

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i am a 14 year old girl, and i am going to court on the 24th this month, in 9 days.
i am going because i tried weed for the first time on october 24th, from peer pressure, and i did it, stupid mistake, hate myself.
so of course the one time i do it, cops find my friends and i walking after curfew, so they make us stop they pull over check all our bags, and of course me being very stupid was holding my friends pipe thing with left over weed in it. so the cops find that in my purse, and i get handcuffed, driven to the station and they keep me there till 3 am, then they call my house at 3 in the morning and tell my mom what happened and tell her to pick me up.
i usually never get into trouble with my parents, i go to private school, im a sheltered brat sure, think what you like.
but i need help i am so scared, and now because of my stupid mistake i have to go to court on christmas eve, and i have no idea what to do, i dont know what its going to be like, i dont know what my punishment is going to be, and i have been crying everyday i am so stressed and so scared, please someone help me please
 
okay.. i am sorry if this is not a good answer but it is the truth. Something like this happened toone f ma friends but her case was dropped b'cuz it wasn't important enough.When you go to court tell the truth. Don't lie b'cuz it will just make ur situation worse. OKay so depending on what state you live in the consequence will be different. butttt they range from going to juvie to getting ur drivers license taken away. i dont wanna sound mean but u got urself into this situation. So ur gonna just have to take ur punishment like an adult, no matter what it is. Just know that ur family loves u know matter what and after this whole experience is over never ever get yourself into this kind of thing again.hope this helps.
 
Your mom will most likely be fined and you might get probation. You might get community service. Or nothing. Unless you get a real azz of a judge, you aren't going to jail for this. It's a first offense and you are 14 years old.

Let this be a lesson to you. You are coming across like you are clueless and scared, but you were out after curfew, high, and carrying a pipe. Cut the dramatics and realize that you are screwing up your life by making these decisions.

You need to get your sh*t together, because the next time they catch you, you won't be able to use the "I never do this" excuse. Stop making your mom's life hard, too, which is exactly what you are doing.
 
You'll be ok, you're only 14 and I did not even think they could arrest you unless you had a certain amount on you. I could be wrong. Just be sure to dress nice for court, like I said there is not alot they can do, they can probably just fine you or community service.
 
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