...business with love? I have some sort of problem , which by luck came to the knowledge of someone I used to know.He offered his assistance about it..
The problem is that person said that he had always loved me.Being in a terrible shape back then, I said that the timing is wrong, and not to be pushed any further I said the answer is NO.I wanted to know if he really cared genuinely to help someone even if he is not getting anything in return.I even liked him too, but I didn't want to feel that I am using him.
He was very angry that I rejected him, but he said he will help anyway.I have been waiting for 6 months .
Recently he called me saying it is done.I asked him out and we now date.During a fight we had after that he said I will have to wait for 1 or 2 months.
.I fear that he won't help me unless it is some sort of favor he would do to his future wife.I really need his help, but I don't want to use him , and I don't want him to play me.
I'm now in the same old situation.Shall I talk about it ?May be he is the one feeling manipulated?or is he manipulating me ?
The problem is that person said that he had always loved me.Being in a terrible shape back then, I said that the timing is wrong, and not to be pushed any further I said the answer is NO.I wanted to know if he really cared genuinely to help someone even if he is not getting anything in return.I even liked him too, but I didn't want to feel that I am using him.
He was very angry that I rejected him, but he said he will help anyway.I have been waiting for 6 months .
Recently he called me saying it is done.I asked him out and we now date.During a fight we had after that he said I will have to wait for 1 or 2 months.
.I fear that he won't help me unless it is some sort of favor he would do to his future wife.I really need his help, but I don't want to use him , and I don't want him to play me.
I'm now in the same old situation.Shall I talk about it ?May be he is the one feeling manipulated?or is he manipulating me ?