to try anything? So there's this girl I'm into, I've known her since high school but I didn't really talk to her until after graduation. Strangely enough, I end up working with this girl at my former high school. During lunch breaks, we'd hang out with each other, initially in a group but later on it was more of a one-on-one thing. Later on, I suspected this girl of liking me but since she had a boyfriend at the time so I thought nothing of it. What made me suspicious of her feelings toward me were the many instances of her trying to get closer to me. She would also try to match my work schedule because we enjoyed each others company because apparently I'm funny. Sometimes I would catch this girl starring at me, at first I thought it was my "middle-eastern ego" feeding me what I'd like to believe but some of the high school seniors on numerous occasions aslo pointed out the same thing.
After quitting the tutoring job, I didn't see this girl for 5 months. Then on the first day of spring semester, I get a random text from her asking me to help her "delete data from her computer." Now I know not everyone is tech-savvy, but deleting files from a computer should be a pre-requisite for anyone under 25, especially in this country. Notice she used the word "data" rather than files or information, which non tech-savvy people usually use (perhaps I'm over analyzing here).
So I meet her at Starbucks the following morning to wipe her data and when I see her come out of her car, she was looking even more attractive then ever. She was wearing a lot of makeup and a very tight blouse exposing the shape of her very large breasts
While "fixing" her computer, she was constantly trying to engage me in conversation, but since I had a cold I didn't pick up on it so she made it more obvious and started talking about how she dislikes her current boyfriend, even though she's living with him and said that she doesn't expect to stay with him long. So after I finish I walk her to her car and thank her, I hug her bye and she says to call or text her if I'd like to hang out or have lunch sometime. So about 3 days ago, I text her "you down for lunch this friday?" I get no response until the day of during the night (about an hour and a half ago). She apologized for the delay and said "sorry for the delay...since it was valentines day weekend, it kinda sent the wrong message...but yea I'd like to have lunch with you if you're still up for it?"
What do you guys make of this? Is she just being silly? Playing hard to get? Did I catch her off guard? Should I go forward in pursuing an intimate relationship with her? If so, how? Please any advise or analysis would be much appreciated. I don't want to waste anymore time with this matter.
FYI:
I don't know if this is important but I think she's one year older than me, she comes from sweden or something like that but grew up here. she is currently living with her current boyfriend but expressed to me she doesn't plan on staying with him...
After quitting the tutoring job, I didn't see this girl for 5 months. Then on the first day of spring semester, I get a random text from her asking me to help her "delete data from her computer." Now I know not everyone is tech-savvy, but deleting files from a computer should be a pre-requisite for anyone under 25, especially in this country. Notice she used the word "data" rather than files or information, which non tech-savvy people usually use (perhaps I'm over analyzing here).
So I meet her at Starbucks the following morning to wipe her data and when I see her come out of her car, she was looking even more attractive then ever. She was wearing a lot of makeup and a very tight blouse exposing the shape of her very large breasts
While "fixing" her computer, she was constantly trying to engage me in conversation, but since I had a cold I didn't pick up on it so she made it more obvious and started talking about how she dislikes her current boyfriend, even though she's living with him and said that she doesn't expect to stay with him long. So after I finish I walk her to her car and thank her, I hug her bye and she says to call or text her if I'd like to hang out or have lunch sometime. So about 3 days ago, I text her "you down for lunch this friday?" I get no response until the day of during the night (about an hour and a half ago). She apologized for the delay and said "sorry for the delay...since it was valentines day weekend, it kinda sent the wrong message...but yea I'd like to have lunch with you if you're still up for it?"What do you guys make of this? Is she just being silly? Playing hard to get? Did I catch her off guard? Should I go forward in pursuing an intimate relationship with her? If so, how? Please any advise or analysis would be much appreciated. I don't want to waste anymore time with this matter.
FYI:
I don't know if this is important but I think she's one year older than me, she comes from sweden or something like that but grew up here. she is currently living with her current boyfriend but expressed to me she doesn't plan on staying with him...