I need help with my SEX problem?

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Ok i posted a question like this earlier but i didnt give full details about the problem.

i've been dating this guy for awhile and we really like eachother. I enjoy being around him and hanging out with him until his hormones kick in. I'm a virgin and i plan on being one till marriage. Everytime i go over his house we have some fun. We usually start making out and stuff then he puts his hands down my pants and tries to finger me which i hate because i have a thick hymen and it hurts badly.

I've told him to stop many many times and he just asks why and im like because it hurts!! duh! anyways he got me out of all my clothes once and in bed and i was really afraid because i didnt want to have sex yet but he was about to do it but he got a call from his parents so we had to get out of his house.

I know im not ready for sex yet. BTW hes a virgin too.
 
Dump him before you get pregnant. He's selfish and he really wants to get laid - just for the experience.

Ah, I remember my youth!
 
He needs to understand that your not ready!, you've told him over and over and he is not listening to you, you should tell him that if he cares about you than he will honor your wishes and leave you be, expain to him and if he does not listen. Than you should tell him to get lost, he does not respect you if he continues like this, and you deserve better a girls virginity is her's to keep and to give away and it belongs to the person you love, or to the person that you believe treats you right, and he is not treating you right.
 
I think it is a good idea you are saving yourself for marriage. I did the same thing.

I just don't understand what the question is?
 
Why do people say they want to wait for marriage but then have sex in every way imagineable? It doesn't make any sense. If you have hand sex or oral sex or whatever sex.. it's still sex!
I suggest you start standing up for yourself and quit allowing yourself to be handled i a way that you don't want. You say HE got you out of your clothes? And you had no say in it? What makes you such a meek and weak person that you allow someone to take your clothes off and you have no say in it? And what makes you allow a person to hurt you? Do you enjoy it? Then why do it?! Start thinking!!!!!! This is serious.. start thinking about what you are doing.
 
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