I need help with my past regarding someone who was very important to me, please help!?

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Well, I met this guy in my senior year of high school (I’m now going into my 2nd year at university). He was straight into his studies and wasn’t the type to go after girls or anything. We had classes together and became best friends. You know the type of friends you can tell anything to and do anything with? The type you’re always comfortable being around…that type. During that time, he made me feel like I was his world and he was the sweetest person ever towards me. And basically we became so close that I thought we would stay this way forever. Lol, I know it’s weird…but I can’t stress enough how close we were. I had feelings for him that senior year so I confessed. He felt the same. However, the following summer we got our self stuck in a problem (won’t stay what, another story!) and there, we were separated. The school year we tried getting back to the way we were before but we always ended up fighting due to the past. And now, we just completely stopped talking. I don’t know what happened…it was so quick. We were arguing one day, and he broke everything off. I am having some personal problems now as well and usually he would be so caring and support me, but this time, he didn’t bother even asking me if I was alright even though he knew about it. It hurts me a lot because we were once so close and now it all died out. He made such an impact in my life. Now that we don’t talk, I don’t know, it feels incomplete. So my question is, how do you control your emotions in this type of situation? Ofcourse, he was always there with me and we learnt so much together. Everything reminds me of that and points to that. What would you do in this situation?

Thanks for all the help, really appreciate it :)

i asked this question before, just needed more thoughts. thank you.
 
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