i need help with bras

French TKO

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Try a sports bra. It won't emphasize shape and will minimize the size. Don't listen to some of the posters posting in this thread. You are probably already embarrassed enough as it is, you don't need quizzical judgements on your decisions. Wearing a bra probably will help with your physical comfort. Try a sports bra (or even a bra top like a work out bra top with a shelf bra built in. OR you can get tank tops with shelf bras that might not look so much like you're wearing one) and go from there.

Don't be ashamed either. Sometimes we gotta do what we gotta do and if this makes you feel more physically comfortable, then so be it!
 
please go see your doctor, and just because there are certain ignorant posters suggesting that you are embaressed you really shouldn't be. you do not need a bra, you
need to get to the root of your problem and your physician is the one that can help.
the fact that you are overweight can be causing some of your discomfort, but it can be
caused by hormones amongst other things. please go see your doctor, and remember you have nothing to be embaressed about. also please try to disregard the previous poster who is being ignorant and giving you silly advice. i wonder, if it were her son would she be taking him to the doctor or would she be so eager and ready to take him to the lingerie store. God help us!
 
This is ideal. There are many of these that don't even look like bras, they're almost like undershirts with support where you might need it. I'm not saying don't see your doctor, but this is excellent advice.
 
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