I need help! My husband gets very agitated and difficult to be around if we go

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I have the same problem with my wife and eventually I just had to learn to not ask so much. However, I do have more thoughts of other women, though, I would NEVER act on them.
 
without sex for a week or more? We have been married for 7 years, have great sex when we do have it. He wants it all the time (which is normal for men I understand), but isn't this the real world? Isn't it pretty good to have sex at least once a week? Also, it definitely turns me off when he asks me for sex 20 times before I leave the house in the morning...
 
don't go without sex for a week or more and he won't get agitated; that's not too much to ask from a marriage anyway.....
 
I understand that your sex drive may not be as high as your husband's, but you can't credit his sex drive for being a male. Some people are naturally more sexual than others. As for your problem for now, it doesn't always have to be sex; try being creative by making a tape or something of that nature, of yourself getting off, and leaving it for him to watch while you are not around. This will give him motivation to satisfy himself which should decrease his attitude, as well as make the time when you are together even better; because he will want you more.

**Note**
2-3 times a week is not a bad thing (to have sex)...TRY IT :)
 
talk about it and find a comprimise. he wants it daily you want it once a week, so try to get it done 2-3 x a week, and ask him in return to stop asking.
 
haha, our roles are reversed, i'm the one that gets all edgy and feel like i want to have sex every single day. Why are you holding out from him, yes this is the real world, and you're married so sex is apart of that.
 
I also would get very agitated and difficult if I went without sex for a week or more. It's not just men. Many women I know say they are frustrated because their husbands are always too tired to have sex
 
I also would get very agitated and difficult if I went without sex for a week or more. It's not just men. Many women I know say they are frustrated because their husbands are always too tired to have sex
 
Damn, woman! He asks for it 20 times? He should understand when you prefer it and when you don't. I mean, yes, it's normal for us men to want sex; things can't be too overly out of control with it, though.
 
Here is what I recommend:
1. You must tell him you only want it once a week, or whatever.
2. You MUST initiate at least some of the time.
3. You MUST go with the flow and give in to him when he initiates at least some of the time
4. You MUST let him masturbate and look at porn or whatever else he wants to do. If you definately do not want him messing around with other women, IT IS HIGHLY RECOMMENDED that you pleasure him in other ways, more than once a week.
 
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