S
Sam
Guest
I know this is going to be a long story, but you have to understand it to answer my question really...sorry, but here it goes:
I was bestfriends with a guy named Will. He was hillarious, trustful, and always there for me. I met him when I transfered schools because of a secret that was spread around my old school. Will was the only one I could trust at my new school and he was just a great bestfriend. And then one day, he told me he liked me alot, ever since we met. I thought about it, considered I liked him, too, and we went on one official date. But I didn't want to be in a relationship because I decided to move back to my old school. (I needed to go back to get over my fears and my past of that school.) So when I did, me and Will talked, but not as much. And then because I moved back to my old school, I developed clinical depression. And I started acting out with shoplifting. So one of my friends told Will and he became angry with me I think. When I found this out, I turned in everything I stole and owned up to my mistakes and ended up getting arrested because of it. And that was almost 2 years ago. He won't talk to me, he doesn't want to be my friend, and he tells people it's because i do "bad things". And I don't! I don't have the balls to talk to him because I'm scared to death of him now. I cry myself to sleep almost every night, for the past 2 years!!! I don't know what to do. I'm too scared of being in a relationship now, because if a guy hurts me, I'm scared it'll just be another Will to make me depressed over. I don't know if I like like Will or if I just miss him like crazy.
Do you have any ideas on how to approach him about this? You have to consider the facts that he probably doesn't want to be my friend, I haven't talked to him in almost 2 years, and I'm really scared, but I want to be able to get him back. Any advice?
I was bestfriends with a guy named Will. He was hillarious, trustful, and always there for me. I met him when I transfered schools because of a secret that was spread around my old school. Will was the only one I could trust at my new school and he was just a great bestfriend. And then one day, he told me he liked me alot, ever since we met. I thought about it, considered I liked him, too, and we went on one official date. But I didn't want to be in a relationship because I decided to move back to my old school. (I needed to go back to get over my fears and my past of that school.) So when I did, me and Will talked, but not as much. And then because I moved back to my old school, I developed clinical depression. And I started acting out with shoplifting. So one of my friends told Will and he became angry with me I think. When I found this out, I turned in everything I stole and owned up to my mistakes and ended up getting arrested because of it. And that was almost 2 years ago. He won't talk to me, he doesn't want to be my friend, and he tells people it's because i do "bad things". And I don't! I don't have the balls to talk to him because I'm scared to death of him now. I cry myself to sleep almost every night, for the past 2 years!!! I don't know what to do. I'm too scared of being in a relationship now, because if a guy hurts me, I'm scared it'll just be another Will to make me depressed over. I don't know if I like like Will or if I just miss him like crazy.
Do you have any ideas on how to approach him about this? You have to consider the facts that he probably doesn't want to be my friend, I haven't talked to him in almost 2 years, and I'm really scared, but I want to be able to get him back. Any advice?